suhaida's petty blog: June 2015

Blessed.

Posted in Labels: Birthday 1:41 AM

My list of blessing at my 28th birthday.

Parents:

Still having the chance to have their boundless loves at this age. May God bless you guys with long lives, happy & healthy , body & spirit. Coz i cant never imagine life without them. The greatest parents i could ever wish in this world. Now its my turn to play your role, for my kids and husband. I hope i can be as good as you guys. You guys been doing so great, if it doesnt turn as what you want, its my own fault, forgive me for everypart that turn you off & sad while raising me up. Please God, ease their path to heaven.

Husband:

Im blessed to be married to a hardworking, comitted, patience husband. A husband that i can count on, can do the house chores, can look after a baby as good as a mother could ever do. I miss and love you everyseconds you are not around, but i keep myself busy, so that i wont miss you much, and i try not to count the days you near & far from me. Because im still adapting how to not miss you when you not around, and how to not to be so dependent on you when you are home. But one thing for sure, im learning to be a good wife and mother everyday. Sorry for any shortcoming from me, the fluctuating mood, the emotional tone, the grumpy days, but you just keep yourself as cool as you can. God just knew what kind of soulmate i needed when he gave me you :)

Kid(s):

To be blessed with a healthy,cute,goodlooking,clever kid. Im just so in love with you baby, please grow well and mama will try my best to shape you into a decent, success man here & afterlife.

Brother:

Having a brother who looks after us when husband not around. Same goes to you, thanks for being patience with us.

Friends:

Having my bestfriends, sharing the jokes,tips,gossips (never ending), shopping ideas (krik krik), & listening to my rant (most important, top list). Friendship till toothless, ohkay.

Cousins:

The Nekdun's family. The centre of laughter for me. And now a playcentre for Danish. Hikhik. Thanks for being nice to me & Danish.

Work:

Doing a job at the department that i love most among all. Praying for a positive attitude & motivation everyday, so that i can be better and better in my field.

Health:

Blessed by a healthy body. Oh God, thanks for easing my second pregnancy. Feeling energetic, stronger, positive than the previous one.

God:

For always be with me up & down. Coz i realize, human will never ever be all the time with me, its only you God. How happy i am with human loves, but feels very empty when they are not around. From there i realize, i cant rely on people to make me happy, the happiness is in me. Thanks for bringing more and more positive things in me, and make me stronger day by day.

Today:

To be able to breath & to continue life & given extra times to repent for the sin i've committed & given chances to do more good deeds in life.

Happy 28th Birthday, Suhaida.

Love yourself & Practice the power of giving.

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Danish & ipad

Posted in Labels: Danish, Motherhood 2:33 AM

Previously danish wasnt into ipad / gadget. It started when he start screaming in the car seat. So he needs me to talk to him, till i got mabuk in the car showing cars lorries busses colors and all that, also showed him videos & abc apps in my phone. He will stop screaming. So after he got used to it, i cant read my phone in car, to reply the text and all. So decided to buy ipad. (Actually i tot long time ago to buy one for me, to read journals at hosp, bcoz iphone is too small for reading).

At the early days of having it, danish seems addicted, worrying me. Bcoz i downloaded rhymes and balls videos in his iphone. So it turned him on. Tantrum without them.

I didnt let it happen so long, just happening less than a week. So i hide the ipad, restricted to car use only. At home, i ensure him play as usual, balls, blocks, books. The next day will let him has his ipad.

But currently, i just give him the ipad when he wants since he nomore spend the whole night with ipad, (previously i need to off the ipad & let him throw tantrum). He is just being danish, getting bored easily, he will play balls in between, if i open book, he will come to me, he will play as usual. I purposely let my room get messy with books and his toys, so he will get distracted with other things instead of ipads. I feel relieved about it, since he nomore dependent on ipad.

He would also socialize with other people, and totally forgot about ipads, when many people around him. He's getting normal, ipad just another toy for him.

Hope he'll benefit from the good things of ipad, and not to stop behaving normal as other active kids. Actually it change my routine , to distract him. Previously i didnt focus much what he wanna do, since he will sepahkan the house and so many other things, so for now i need to compete with ipads, i make sure he play balls, i read for him, i put aside my phone too. Giving him more attention than before. Once i do my job, they will say goodnight to each other, (mummy slowly hide the ipad under the pillow) see you tomorrow. He also tak cari pon. So no one get hurts anymore. No more paksa rela.

Grow well baby. Dont let the gadget bite you. Glad the jakunness didnt last long as u turn to a normal kid.