Ramadhan baby.

Alhamdulillah. 

8 July 2015 4:45 pm selamat aku melahirkan seorang lagi baby boy, but this time secara normal. 

Untuk baby kali ni, check up merunsingkan sedikit, dengan masalah berat badan dia yang suka syok sendiri tak match2 ngan age dia. Minggu 38 mama dia terpaksa la stop puasa, bila berat n size dia static. Minggu 38 tu baru je jumaat lepas, doc kata baby tak engage, high position. Hem hampa dah kat situ, takot jadi cam enish, sampai minggu 40 pon high position, no contraction, no show and all, so end up elective csec.

Dulu masa enish, kalau pas semayang, aku xpernah doa aku nak beranak normal ke czer ke, sebab normal tu aku takot sangat, czer tu cam tdetik dalam hati, kan tak sakit. Tuhan kan Maha mendengar, ko terdetik pon dia dengar. Czer la ko menjawabnye.

Kali ni, aku betol2 nak normal. Sebab aku xnak lagi badan ni kena bukak2, nak kena jaga luka czer, takot czer kali ni akan lebih sakit, camne nak jaga 2 anak. N czer tak boleh bengkong, tungku, urut perot n all. Mak nak masok kan pusat mak yg terjojol ini. Lol. Pastu hello , klw kali ni czer, nanti yg 3rd kena czer lagi ke. Pastu itu je ke anak Suhaida. 

So bulan puasa n dari awal pregnancy, aku doa aku nak normal normal normal delivery. Semoga mudah, semoga tiada komplikasi, baby sihat aku sihat. Tanpa czer, tanpa vacuum, forcep, induce & sbg. (Take note). Mudah mudah mudahkan Ya Allah. 

Doc kata masa minggu 38 ,xengage, macam susah nak normal, sebab baby tinggi, tp dia kata xpe tengok minggu 39, kalau tinggi lagi, cam sama je la end up ngan enish.

So aku doa doa doa, plz baby naik berat badan sikit, jangan static, mama ada seminggu nak jumpa doctor, please engage, n Tuhan biar la aku beranak before raya, aku xnak susah kan family yang xtau nak raya kat mana sebab nak tunggu aku beranak, perlu standby jaga aku, suami kat laut. Banyak orang aku perlu susahkan. Tolong la beranak before raya. Tolong la before week 39 baby engage.

So hari selasa, masok toilet eh ada brown discharge masa kol 11 pagi. Masa nak zohor, cek lagi makin banyak. Kol 3pm kita pergi la jumpa HOD gynae hosp kita yang baik sangat tu, cam muah2 sangat. Tunjuk pad kat dia, tunjuk underwear kat dia, dia kata yes tu mmg process labor la. Symptoms lain aku rasa nak berak, tp xberak pon bila cuba. Oh itu pon sama lah. So dia kata pangkal rahim da lembut, bukak 1cm. Dia kata 1cm tu nak bukak jadi 3cm ke apa boleh amek days, yang dia pon xboleh nak janji & jangka. So just tunggu air ketuban pecah, ada contraction, baru la g spital semula.

So aku relax je lah. Rasa cam lambat lagi la gini. Husband pon flight dapat 6 petang esok. Doc kata xpe la xyah rush. Sempat sangat. Tp mama ayah teros gerak dari Kluang. Magrib sampai rumah. Mak unggal pon dari Gombak datang malam tu kol 11. Aku cakap ngan mak unggal, xyah la teman ida malam ni, lambat lagi ni, skang ni ida nak berak2 je, sian plak tunggu2, esok pon ida nak g jalan2 ngan mama kasi turun baby ni. (Ajak ayah g ikea, ayah xnak, takot terberanak, mama ajak g metro point je, yang depan hosp kajang, baik aku g kerja je, HAHA) .So kol 12.30 mak unggal balik Gombak semula pas supper ngan kitorang.

Kita pon nak tido lah. Mat enish cam biasa xreti tdo, kita panggil ayed teman dia atas katil tgk ipad. I is nak tdo. Dengan rasa nak berak la kencing lah. Ishh xtahan la, nak bangun g toilet la. Sekali bunyii POOOOP. "Eh ayed, ko dengar x, bunyi poop" dalam kepala aku apa yg patah dalam perot aku ni, tangan baby ke tulang baby ke ni. (Suhaida kot, mmg gitu). Ayed cam "xde pon". Ok la gerak turun katil. Sekali oh makk kauuu air cam paip bocorrr cam segala isi perot akan keluar kat lantai. Woossshh wooisshh wossh. Menjerit la akuuuu panggil mama ayah. Lintang pukang diorg lari. Danish pon lari kat mama aku, takot dengar aku jerit. So bekejar la pergi brittania, so midwife tu check "jalan close, position high" as at 3am. Ye la dia pecah je. Mmg xde contraction pon melainkan rasa nak berak yg nikmat2 gitu.

Tapi pastu every 1 in 10 minutes, kadang 7 minutes sampai subuh dia contract cam sembelit tu, tp xcukup kuat utk kata nak beranak lah, masih ok. Mak unggal tukang urut belakang. Ni lah Tuhan gantikan Oko dengan Mak Unggal yang sangat aku sayang ni. Dia pon xtdo teman aku urut aku. Kira kan every bape minute.

So pagi da xbape nak contract sangat, baby rilex. Boleh la aku lelap jap. Dr Tan jumpa jap pagi, dia kata xmo wat VE kerap2, unless contraction aku da kuat kerap n lama, baru diorg akan wat VE. Sebab da leaking kan. Dia xnak introduce infection. Dia bagi masa 24 jam dari air ketuban pecah tu. Klw xde progress. 6 pagi esok nye czer. Dia akan tolong induce kalau ada bukaan 5-6cm, kalau xde bukaan cannot induce.

Kol 2 dia datang balik, buat VE lah, so bukaan 2cm. So nurse2 cakap, hem lama jugak 12 jam pecah ketuban baru 2cm, baby pon very high position. Heemmm. 

Tp pastu contraction aku makin kuat lah. Yang aku da xtahan. Aku pk weeyh sampai bila nak tahan camni, sampai malam nanti every 5 mins ke nak kena tahan. Mak unggal soh tarik nafas, jangan nangis, sebut Allahhuakbar, zikir zikir. Ingat Allah. Mula2 boleh lagi la. Lama2 aku da nanges. Sakit sakit. Bape lama lagi ni. Ida nak epidural. Ye la. Setiap 5 minit kuat gitu kan. Kol 3 cakap ngan nurse. Xtahan laaah. Sabar, dia nak bukak tu dari 2cm. Nak jalan nak bagi turun pon kepala baby aku xleyh dah. 

Oh tapi before doc balik kol 2.30 tu siap jumpa doc semula, konon la nak tanya dia rasa aku patot tunggu x, berbaloi tak aku tunggu, kalau tahan2 sakit, baby xnak turun jugak, czer je la. (Nampak x ilang semangat nak normal, sbb sakit sangat). 

Aku ingat doc nak kata " saya da kata awak susah nak normal, baby awak tinggi, awak nak czer now saya boleh czer. " 

Oh tak upenye dia kata ," cuba laa, ni la proses labor, mmg sakit, u xcuba u xtau, bolehh malam ni mesti dia keluar, da lembut da tu, sakit tu sebab dia nak bukak jalan, xpee nanti dia da bukak jalan, baby akan turun, malam nanti kalau xboleh jugak 12 malam pon i boleh czer you" (Memandai je aku nak czer, padahal somi soh cuba normal)

Dalam kol 4 tu aku panggil nurse. Soh check jugak da bape cm. sebab aku nak epidural. Snurse kata "xboleh epi, epi kena tunggu 5-6cm". Tapii saya xtahaaan da macamnii. Dia pon cek. Da 6 cm. dalam masa 2 jam dari 2cm boleh teros pergi 6cm. Ok good good i can hv my epi now! 

So snurse tolak pergi labour room, call dr tan n pakar bius, masa dia setup2 tu aku still kena tahan sakit contraction tu kan. 

Snurse kata "awak sure ke awak nak epi, ni da 8cm ni , awak ada minom air selusuh ke" mana plak selusuh aku dpt. Oh pastu dia kuar kan air kencing aku yg banyak tu, sebab klw pundi kencing penoh, baby susah nak lalu.

Dr tan sampai pon kata oo xsempat epi, induce pon xyah sebab baby da kat bawah, tinggal push je. Dr bius pon sampai, turun balik sebab xperlu.

Aku cam weyhh apa ni nak push dengan sangat raw xde bius xde apa. So matron florence (ex matron hosp kajang) ganti tempat suami aku , utk aku pegang tangan, bagi semangat. 

1st push xberjaya , sebab aku teran n tarik nafas, so baby keluar masok balik. So tunggu lagi 1 sakit, pussssh pushhhh pushhhhhh , voooshhh kuar baby. Alhamdulillah. Kuasa Tuhan. 

Bersemangat team2 dalam tu bersorak bagi semangat. So sebenarne yang sakit time dia contract2 tu. Hadoi makk. Masa push tu sedap2 je, cam ko keluar kau skang! Haha. 

Sampai skang, macam terfikir2 lagi. Doa aku yang sebijik2 tu mmg dapat. (kecuali mintak somi ada tu, xdpt ler, mungkin sbb da set klw dia xde aku nak drama xnak bagi tgk anak, tp bila dia pergi gak kerja, aku da redha kan je, n be positive).

Betapa Tuhan tu Maha mendengar, Maha penyayang, Maha mengasihani dan segala puji hanya untuk Allah.

Terima kasih kerana mendengar segala rintihanku, permintaanku, memudahkan segala urusankan, Dia yang memberi ujian, dan Dia juga lah yang memudahkan segalanya.

Walaupun suami tiada disisi ketika saat-saat kritikal, Tuhan ganti dengan orang lain yang tinggi sifat kasih sayangnya. Mama, ayah, Makunggal & family, ex matron n sister hosp kajang yg kerja kat brittania ni, Dr Tan yg sangat best. 

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*Upenye Noah pon terbelit tali pusat gak cam Enish. Dalam scan xde plak. Mungkin baru terbelit kot after last check up.

*Muka Noah jantan sikit dari Enish. Enish mat Jambu. Lips je la jongket cam mak dia ni. Apa2 pon sihat walafiat pon cukup untuk mama. 

*papa baru sampai semalam kol 11 malam. Duit jimat epidural & cost czer tu boleh la ganti beli handbag.

*sampai skang xcite lagi full experience kat husband. Sape soh xde. (Xpe i sikit pon da xmarah, masa pegnen je marah & ada rasa benci sikit dgn ur decision, tp pk positive, awak xnak susahkan orang lain ganti tempat awak, saya pon pk org tu pon ada family nak balik puasa & raya ngan familiy dia, mana2 je la yg terbaik utk awak, i got my family, s okay)

*Takot nak ngandong lagi. Ui sakit 2 jam gitu pon xsanggup. Cane la kalau yang sakit berjam2 gitu masih xbukak2. Kena tunggu sampai malam ngan sakit gitu ke kan. 

* kalau czer mesti tengah terdampar atas katil, normal, back to normal la idop ni. Settle situ je ah. Syukur. 

*walaupun mama kita lemah semangat, tak ada selalu ngan kita masa kita sakit bersalin kat hospital, rupanya dia berdoa menangis2 kat umah mintak dipermudahkan, tak sakit lama, selesai doa, dia datang hospital, saya pon ditolak ke labour room. Thanks mama. I love you so much. Doa ibu itu makbul. 

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Timeline

7 July 2015, 

5am - bermula rasa nak berak.

11am - brown discharge

8 July 2015

2.30 am - Pecah ketuban, tiada bukaan, high position.

3 am-7am - contraction 1 in 7 minutes. Biasa2 je sakit tahap sembelit.

2 pm - bukak 2cm. Baby high position

3pm- 4pm - start contract yg sangat kerap & kuat.

4pm- bukak 6cm, tolak labour room.

4:15pm- bukak 8cm

4:45 - beranak sudah. Tak sempat induce , xsempat epidural. 

ALHAMDULILLAH














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Blessed.

My list of blessing at my 28th birthday.

Parents:
Still having the chance to have their boundless loves at this age. May God bless you guys with long lives, happy & healthy , body & spirit. Coz i cant never imagine life without them. The greatest parents i could ever wish in this world. Now its my turn to play your role, for my kids and husband. I hope i can be as good as you guys. You guys been doing so great, if it doesnt turn as what you want, its my own fault, forgive me for everypart that turn you off & sad while raising me up. Please God, ease their path to heaven.

Husband:
Im blessed to be married to a hardworking, comitted, patience husband. A husband that i can count on, can do the house chores, can look after a baby as good as a mother could ever do. I miss and love you everyseconds you are not around, but i keep myself busy, so that i wont miss you much, and i try not to count the days you near & far from me. Because im still adapting how to not miss you when you not around, and how to not to be so dependent on you when you are home. But one thing for sure, im learning to be a good wife and mother everyday. Sorry for any shortcoming from me, the fluctuating mood, the emotional tone, the grumpy days, but you just keep yourself as cool as you can. God just knew what kind of soulmate i needed when he gave me you :)

Kid(s):

To be blessed with a healthy,cute,goodlooking,clever kid. Im just so in love with you baby, please grow well and mama will try my best to shape you into a decent, success man here & afterlife. 

Brother:
Having a brother who looks after us when husband not around. Same goes to you, thanks for being patience with us.

Friends:
Having my bestfriends, sharing the jokes,tips,gossips (never ending), shopping ideas (krik krik), & listening to my rant (most important, top list). Friendship till toothless, ohkay.

Cousins:
The Nekdun's family. The centre of laughter for me. And now a playcentre for Danish. Hikhik. Thanks for being nice to me & Danish. 

Work:
Doing a job at the department that i love most among all. Praying for a positive attitude & motivation everyday, so that i can be better and better in my field.

Health:
Blessed by a healthy body. Oh God, thanks for easing my second pregnancy. Feeling energetic, stronger, positive than the previous one. 

God:
For always be with me up & down. Coz i realize, human will never ever be all the time with me, its only you God. How happy i am with human loves, but feels very empty when they are not around. From there i realize, i cant rely on people to make me happy, the happiness is in me. Thanks for bringing more and more positive things in me, and make me stronger day by day.

Today:
To be able to breath & to continue life &  given extra times to repent for the sin i've committed & given chances to do more good deeds in life.

Happy 28th Birthday, Suhaida.
Love yourself & Practice the power of giving.

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Danish & ipad

Previously danish wasnt into ipad / gadget. It started when he start screaming in the car seat. So he needs me to talk to him, till i got mabuk in the car showing cars lorries busses colors and all that, also showed him videos & abc apps in my phone. He will stop screaming. So after he got used to it, i cant read my phone in car, to reply the text and all. So decided to buy ipad. (Actually i tot long time ago to buy one for me, to read journals at hosp, bcoz iphone is too small for reading).

At the early days of having it, danish seems addicted, worrying me. Bcoz i downloaded rhymes and balls videos in his iphone. So it turned him on. Tantrum without them.

I didnt let it happen so long, just happening less than a week. So i hide the ipad, restricted to car use only. At home, i ensure him play as usual, balls, blocks, books. The next day will let him has his ipad.

But currently, i just give him the ipad when he wants since he nomore spend the whole night with ipad, (previously i need to off the ipad & let him throw tantrum). He is just being danish, getting bored easily, he will play balls in between, if i open book, he will come to me, he will play as usual. I purposely let my room get messy with books and his toys, so he will get distracted with other things instead of ipads. I feel relieved about it, since he nomore dependent on ipad.

He would also socialize with other people, and totally forgot about ipads, when many people around him. He's getting normal, ipad just another toy for him. 

Hope he'll benefit from the good things of ipad, and not to stop behaving normal as other active kids. Actually it change my routine , to distract him. Previously i didnt focus much what he wanna do, since he will sepahkan the house and so many other things, so for now i need to compete with ipads, i make sure he play balls, i read for him, i put aside my phone too. Giving him more attention than before. Once i do my job, they will say goodnight to each other, (mummy slowly hide the ipad under the pillow) see you tomorrow. He also tak cari pon. So no one get hurts anymore. No more paksa rela. 

Grow well baby. Dont let the gadget bite you. Glad the jakunness didnt last long as u turn to a normal kid.






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Danish @ Kids Eworld.

Salam,

This saturday, i brought Danish to Kids E world. The plan started when i scrolled Lara Alana IG. Her mummy brought her there. So I clicked the location on top of the pics, and Danish seems very excited to see the balls picture on the screen. (He's very obsess to ball).

Since Danish's parents had only taken Danish to Afamosa theme park Malacca, as his 1st animal & water exposure, so i guess, its good if i can bring him to another outdoor activities.

The plan had almost being cancelled after he got infected with my cold on thursday night, but thank God with the PCM & Cetrizine the cold stop there. So, no more guilty to bring him there.

I woke up early morning, picked his mama yana at Gombak, and we headed to IPC. We paid RM 63 including GST, for a kid & 2 guardians. And paid extra RM5 for Danish's socks (all must wear socks, thought Danish doesnt need socks so that he can climb easily, without getting slipped) and another RM5, for extra guardian (Guardians : me, yana, ayed). Mama needs extra guardian of course, since mama bring along a 7 months old unborn baby in her womb.

Since we arrived there at 11, Danish can enjoy the moment as he owned the place. (Actually his mama yana yang fefeeling owning the place like the old kid).

Danish focus & enjoy most the colorful balls pool, the balloon , and starting to love the slides. (But you need to climb before you can get down the slides, if not i will ask his paklang or mama yana to get him sliding till he get enough of it).

We ended our 1st session at 1pm, and took our lunch at manhattan, solat, and have our sweet time buying iphone casing, tempered glass at the street, e-curve. (Purposely did that, so that danish can have 1-2 hour nap time before he get cranky in the 2nd session). Thought of getting myself a cardigan , but couldnt find the one i saw last time with oko.

We went again to the kids e world, at 4pm, (of course i made sure RM 60 didnt go wasted). This time with another 2 guardians very excited to join along, while paklang staying in car. I paid 1 extra tag, RM 5 for a new guardian, the other guardian just took the tag from paklang. So total guardians, 4. The new guardians : the 14 years old yana & aen. Even danish was out for the diaper change, those 2 girls were still in the balloon area jumping chasing the balloon, hey your kid is outtt here. Very the excited. But the pm time was crowded with more energetic kiddos, me cant bear it. So plz come early in the morning, if you want your kids to own the place. Before we ended the day at 6pm, we gv chance to Danish to warm down at the toddler area. More peaceful. 







Danish & Mama yana.
So RM 60 for 2 kids i consider. LOL.







The pm session.
2 new guardians.
or Danish with 3 other kids. 
LOL.











Thank you girls for entertaining my boy.











The passive guardian.
The most she could do.
WEFIE.




Danish & ball.



Colorful balls made his day.



Balloons heaven.



Balls again.



The kids under 4 area.




and not to forget, his Pak Lang.





Overall, i think Danish enjoyed his day. & he focus on ballss & balls. Less interest in climbing, and starting to love slide, i can see his face very excited everytime coming down from slides, and didnt scare at all when we let him slides by himself. 

He slept very well on the night, without getting clingy to me. Heaven. Will bring you to more places, baby. You are a big boy now. And i kept all his balls videoo in his ipad, so i dont need to find and find balls video in youtube. Watch yours. And, 24 hours after the activities, you are still healthy, good, you are safe (this time) from the HFMD whatever contagious disease. Pheww.



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To love or to hate?

So bored right now. Feeling empty. How should i feel ? It just repeating every other month. The 1st week he went offshore, i can take it positively. It just that my son, who's growing, starts to express his feeling by hving fever for a day or two at the early days of his absence. Me start to think what to cook for danish's breakfast, for me & bro's dinner. How much to spend so that i wont draw much cash from his account.

When he's not around. Kinda miss him. Time is ticking too slow. Weeks feel like months. Still not immune to it.

But i know when he comes back, it will be another story of exhaustion. Exhausted with accumulating oncalls. He will take care of Danish while im oncall. And my day full of his planning , mostly going to his family place. 

Hemm.. How to say, my marriage turns something like this: this month i'll be a single mother, im the leader, no argument. The other month, the chief comes back, there start the argument, i want this way, he wants that way, but he will be at home for a month, not working, he do all the chores, he will think what to eat tonite, clean up the mess, play with Danish, the roles divided into two, instead of all on me.

Few months later, another baby will need my attention too. Maid? A burden or a helper? Or should i just cont my life as usual but with more sweats & struggle. Dont wanna touch your job, its your choice. You are trying to support us, thus i should support you, i know it will end someday, at the right time. We both will do our best, tho its hard. 





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Again

Assalamualaikum.

Harini berjaya bukak buku pink kat KK. Nak give up da g KK kajang, dia soh datang isnin rabu. Da la susah parking. So try KK chua. Eh sampai kol 10 da xterima da , soh datang esok. Aku dtg esoknye which is arini eh nak sok datang lain hari plak. Sbb khamis ari org buat OGTT. So ramai. Xkesah la. Aku nak bukak gak.

Ui. Yg mengambik darahnye sakit. Setakat ni xpenah lagi org amek darah sakit kat tgn mak ni. Mmg mak zabarr je. Nasib Hb kita 13.4. Xyah amek darah lagi. KK chua monthly pon amek darah kat lengan. Klw ada anemia. Amek lengan gak. Xde prick2 kat jari. Mak xsanggup klw gitu skillnye. Tp masok bilik staffnurse, baik staffnurse tu. Masok bilik doctor, strict kau. Siap pertikaikan kenapa Dr Tan czer . Xengage, tbelit tali pusat, rahim kebelakang ke bukan reason utk czer unless da try utk normal. Klw camni means dr tan ingat pelvic i kecik. "U tak kecik sgt, baby x besar sgt" apa2 pon sy xnak komen la sbb dia specialist la, tp klw sy , sy akan cuba normal dulu, ni saya rasa next time awak czer jugak.
Pastu aku mintak dia discharge kan la. & bgtau niat bukak buku pink incase klw ada complication atleast sy da ada buku pink. Tp doc tu cam xgalakkan lah. Dia klw boleh nak aku follow up sampai sudah ngan gomen, tp nak beranak mana tu ikot suka lah, sbb klw ada kes kematian ibu atau anak masa kelahiran, buku pink ni la guna utk buat siasatan, swasta biasanye xtelus, tp dia kata ada je la yg telus. Oo gitu. Dia kata , sy bagi je la appt seterusnya, ikot awakla nak dtg ke x. Pastu g kat snurse yg baik tu semula mintak tarikh appt, aku tanya sy xnak la follow dua tempat, sy pasni nak g private, klw ada komplikasi sy dtg sini balik bolehkan.  Snurse tu ok je. Dia tulis la kat buku tu nak follow up private. Cuma dia kata awak jgn xg check up plak, kena jujur g check up. And klw da beranak kena inform sini semula. Baikk! Sengih sampai telinga. Akot la mak sik amek daraah je. Da la soh dtg minggu 14 (next week) minom air gula. Tekak ni x ok lagi. Oko pon da g laut. Klw mak muntah camne. Nak nangis kat siapa mintak simpati. Mak kenot tau. Pastu nak kena amek darah plak dua kali. Tadi amek cam nak bengkak tangan. Xsukaaa lah. Xpe2 mak follow brittania. No worry. Doakan kita ok je xde problem k. Kita xhabes lagi ketaksukaan check up. Nak kena repeat lagi. Klw boleh biar yg light & xstressful sgt la. Anak pertama semangat kobar2 sikit. Anak kedua sebab xsempat kumpul semangat lagi. Biar la relax2 sikit, asalkan mak tenang jeww.

K la tu je hapdet.
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Kemain kau tajuk. ok, I cam nak tulis la babygear ke apa-apa la yang i membeli nak mudahkan hidup i jaga Danish. Da lama nak tulis, ni tengah oncall, sesambil tunggu patient, boleh la kita bebel2 in between kan. I minom nescafe sebungkus td, sebab rasa ngantok amat sgt. now rasa heaven kesegaran mata ini, sampai rajin tulis blog.


BABYCOT

Babycot ni i semangat beli before Danish lahir. Beli sebab nak letak Danish dalam ni masa pantang kat rumah mama, since rumah mama ada kucing. tapi bila da pantang, rupanya mama da buang seme kucing, sebab mak dia over bila nampak kucing, takot meroyan or bentan sebab kucing plak. So, tak letak la Danish dalam babycot. Susah la caesarean nak bangun duduk angkat2 baby dari babycot, better tido sebelah i je lah. So babycot digunakan time dia da pandai golek-golek. Takot jatuh katil. Bila jaga sorang, nak gi mana-mana dalam rumah tu, letak dia dalam tu. Tapi Danish tak suka la babycot. HEHE. Tapi suka tak suka i tetap letak dia dalam tu. Masa dok sorang letak babycot mengadap bilik air. beli bumper cot supaya kaki dia tak terselit-selit kat pagar-pagar tu, and bila dia jatuh pon tak terhantuk. As long as dia nampak i, dia hoke. Pastu letak mainan dalam tu, sambil kita mandi dia main-main la ngan menan tu. sembahyang pon sebelah babycot asal dekat dengan dia. Pastukan i rasa cam sepatotnye I beli playpen ada tyre kan senang i nak sorong sana sini.

Playgym nye barang i transfer ke sini, bila dia da meluat sangat tgk playgym tu.

"serabot aku dok dalam babycot ni"- Danish



Bumpercot mengurangkan hantokan.

Before turun kan base.

selepas turunkan base. tempat mainan danish time mama mandi & solat.

"tapi kadang-kadang sabar ini ada batasnye mama"- Danish


NUNALEAF

Nunaleaf i beli sebagai ganti buai. Danish memang susah tidor. memang tahap kena buai. Tapi da tau keburukan buai tu, memang tak beli. Last sekali beli nunaleaf, at least dia swing la. Danish memang tak dependent kat nunaleaf ni. sebab kita letak masa dia khayal nak tidor, atau pon masa transit dia dari katil, or kereta, supaya dia tak terjaga. Sampai now dia da 10 bulan pon masih guna. Tapi bukan masa dia segar bugar. Masa open house, letak baby kawan kerja, hoi baby tu terus tidooor dibuai. HAHA. senang nye. Tapi Danish hanya untuk melenakan dia yang sedang tidor sahaja. So, kalau bangun pagi nak gi kerja, instead of letak dia dalam babycot, yang dia selalu perasan ok kalau dia tidor, orang transit dia dalam babycot, komfem dia bangun and ngamok, so pagi2 akan testing dulu, letak slow2 dalam babycot, kalau dia tidooo, fuuuyy, lega leyh wat bubur dia kemas beg bagai pagi2 tanpa risau dia akan tergolek jatuh katil, tapi kalau dia merengek, i letak dia dalam nunaleaf. Ok. dia sambong tidor. Haritu masa fam oko nak datang raya, oko kibot beli itu ini, tunggu orang sesat jalan seme, i buat air, isi kuih seme settle, sebab danish tidor nyenyak dalam nunaleaf.

mood : Ok

Mood: Em tak pe mama, danish sabar je.

Mood : lepaskaann sayaa


BUMBO SEAT

Bumbo seat ni i beli masa Danish meniarap lagi, tapi dia tak suka meniarap, dia tension hadap lantai, dia nak orang dudukkan dia sambil dia main. So, i pon terfikir bumbo seat. Tapi bumbo seat ni, Danish memang tak duduk lama, dia akan geliatkan badan dia kasi keluar. I guna masa nak feed dia. Tapi sama lah, kejap je da geliat2 nak keluar. Last sekali feed dalam walker, tapi kotor laa walker tu hoi. But, i guna ni, time i gosok baju. JENG JENG. i gosok baju, i letak dia dalam bumbo seat, dikelilingi barang-barang yang dia rasa nak capai, so sementara i iron tu, dia main lah sebelah i.

Makan kena bukak baju, ni pon terbalik bekas makanan dia tepok.

Masa memula beli.

Dia bahagia dok dalam tu kalau kita biar dia bebas tarik sana sini. tapi i akan letak bantal kelililing kalau dia cam lasak, takot la terbalik dalam tu. LULZ.

Ni time study. Study angattt.


WALKER

Jeng-jeng. Walker. benda yang i sangat tak nak beli. Sebab no good kan. tapi i beli secara tak sengaja sebab geram tengok comel. Pastu bila da beli i rasa kerja seharian i mudah. Wahah. Kalau tak de walker, sebelum ni i letak danish dalam nunaleaf. Ko hingat dia sabar kena ikat dalam tu. Pastu letak dia kat luar, ko akan basuh pinggan sambil kepala toleh kat dia, tak tengok pinggan. pastu risau dia jatuh seme. nak makan pon kena pegang dia yang akan tarik2 pinggan, tangan yang sangat laju itu. Bila da ada walker, time i makan i letak dia dalam walker, sambil bagi dia makan biskut, habis makan angkat keluar. Masa basuh botol susu dia, buat bubur dia, masa kat dapor la letak dia dalam tu jap, bagi dia apa2 mainan, da siap keje angkat. Tapi kalau dia cranky mintak angkat yet kerja harus disettlekan kena letak dia kat lantai bagi segala benda kasi dia main. Satu hari xlebeyh 1 jam Danish dok dalam tu, i think should be fine.

Ni je ada gambo walker? pfft. Ni masa papa nak keluar n mama pump susu. dia tak pandai gerakkan walker lagi time ni. sik pusing bentuk bulatan je.


Conclusion routine harian: 

PAGI
1. MANDI - babycot (nangis or gembira, kamu duduk la dalam tu, as long as u are safe there)
2. BLEND BUBUR & pack apa yg xsempat masa malam ikot mood Danish - babycot/nuna (kalau tidor), Walker (kalau dia xmo tdo da pagi, nanges2 yet kerja harus diteruskan, pack2 barang2 sikit biorkan je dia nangis, kalau tak, tak gi kerja mak, tapi jarang lah)


PETANG
Balik kerja pump susu, mandi, sembahyang settle kan apa yg patot dalam masa sejam, ambik Danish.
1. BASUH BOTOL SUSU - dalam walker

MALAM
1. SEDIAKAN BEG NURSERY - Biarkan dia kat lantai
2. IRON BAJU- Lantai / Bumbo seat
3. BUBUR/SUSU - Lantai/Walker
4. MAKAN - Walker

Semua helper ni kekejap je. Especially kalau xde pembantu or suami. As long as keje jalan & baby selamat.

Ni aktiviti kalau biar dia kat lantai.

paling feveret ada wyre2 ni.
ANOTHER HELPER
memang belom kahwin lagi da beli, memang niat utk hiborkan anak, and bagi anak hidup gaya sihat dari baby lagi.

Hasilnye, belum setahun da pandai kayoh beskal. Nampak kan berbaloi.

"Mama, tolong jangan propa"- Danish


Weyh. perot sakit, tangan rasa nak gigil lah, nak muntah! Ni LAH PADAH NESCAFE! adoiiiii. Hate it.
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